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Shattered Dreams: The Quiet Battle of a Grieving Dad

Shattered Dreams: The Quiet Battle of a Grieving DadBy: Azher Rubbani Published on: 13/11/2025

An honest reflection on what happens to a dad when his baby is born silent. The shattered dreams, the quiet battle inside, and a softer way to give that love a voice.

Identity & Mindset
Shattered Dreams: The Quiet Battle of a Grieving Dad

I Lost My Baby Too: A Message from a Grieving Dad

I Lost My Baby Too: A Message from a Grieving DadBy: Azher Rubbani Published on: 10/11/2025

A message to fathers after baby loss: you are still a dad. You can support your partner and grieve too. Here’s how to hold both - Plus one simple way to start today.

Identity & Mindset
I Lost My Baby Too: A Message from a Grieving Dad

You don’t have to choose: supporter or griever.

You don’t have to choose: supporter or griever.By: Azher Rubbani Published on: 10/11/2025

You don’t have to pick a role. As a grieving dad, you can support your partner and honour your own grief. Here’s a gentle way to hold both, plus a simple writing prompt to start.

Identity & Mindset
You don’t have to choose: supporter or griever.